Transitioning to the First Civilian Division: Insights from a Retired Military Veteran

Transitioning from active duty to civilian life is a significant change, often filled with mixed emotions and new experiences. As a retired military veteran, I want to share my journey and insights into this transition to the "First Civ Div" – the first civilian division.

The Organized Move

The transition began with meticulous planning. We shut down each room in our house, one by one, packing everything into boxes and moving them to a storage facility conveniently located across the street. This systematic approach made the process smoother and less overwhelming. I remember the day we packed up the kitchen – it was a bittersweet moment, filled with memories of family dinners and late-night snacks.

Settling in Austin, Texas

We chose Austin, Texas, as our new home. The move marked the beginning of my civilian life. Interestingly, it was during this time that I developed a daily coffee habit – something I never indulged in during my military years. My go-to order? A Grande White Mocha. I still remember my first sip; it felt like a small but significant step into my new life.

Adapting to Civilian Life

Adjusting to civilian life came with its own set of challenges and surprises. One of the most noticeable changes was the way people dressed. In Texas, it seemed like everyone wore workout clothes as everyday attire, which was quite a shift from the structured military uniforms I was used to. I recall joking with my wife about how people wore workout clothes without a drop of sweat on them – a stark contrast to my military days.

Finding a New Routine

Establishing a new routine was crucial. I started running three miles once a week along a popular ranch road. This consistency helped me maintain my physical health and provided a sense of normalcy during the transition. I vividly remember my first run; the open road, the fresh air, and the sense of freedom were exhilarating. It was a reminder that I was starting a new chapter in my life.

Setting Goals and Milestones

One piece of advice that stuck with me came from my Master Gunnery Sergeant, Master Guns Bowens. He emphasized the importance of having a plan of actions and milestones (POA&M). This approach helped me set clear goals and track my progress, much like writing a poem where each action leads to a milestone. I often think back to his words when I set my daily goals, whether it's a small task or a long-term objective.

Embracing the Journey

Transitioning to civilian life is a unique experience for everyone. It's essential to nourish yourself during this period and understand that your journey is your own. By setting goals and taking consistent actions, you can navigate this transition successfully. I found that embracing the small victories, like mastering a new coffee order or completing a run, made the larger transition feel more manageable.